~It's never too late to happily ever after~

Live is an adventure for all people who live in this world. I just want to share what I am thinking about live in this world. I write this maybe because the experieces from my life and some other from other people experiences. Actually what is people want in this world? I am sure,.. that every body want to be happy life,... happy love,.. hapilly always till the ends of time. Since we are born into this world,.. God is already give a destiny to us since we are born. then we grow up,.. became an adult human who can distinguish good and bad, right and wrong.

Live is in the faith that the whole world is on your side so long as  you are true the best that is in you. Give so much time to improvement yourself that you have no time to criticize others. what a wonderful beginning to a new islamic year 1435 Hijjri. It began late in the previous year,.. I promise  myself to be so strong that nothing can disturb my  peace of mind. And I look at the sunny side of everything and make my optimism come true. Think only of the best, and expect only the best. I try to forget the mistakes of the past and press on the greater achievements of the future.

Just because you fail once... it's doesn't mean you're going to fail at everything. Keep trying,.. hold on,... and always,.. always ,.. and always believe in yourself because if you don't, then who will?  So keep your head high,.. keep your chin up,.. and most importantly, keep smiling... because  lifes a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about. The only way to get through life is to laugh your way through it. You either have to laugh or cry. I prefer to laugh. Crying just give me a headache. I am should't gave up. fight for myself and for who I am. I've got to go through the worst times in life to get best.

If there's one thing I learned, it's that nobody is here forever. You have to live for the moment...each and every day . . . the here, the now. Live each day as if it’s your last’, that was the conventional advice, but really, who had the energy for that? What if it rained or you felt a bit glandy? It just wasn’t practical. The trick of it, I told to myself, is to be courageous and bold and make a difference. Not change the world exactly, just the bit around you. Go out there with your double-first, your passion and your new  electric typewriter and work hard at … something. Change lives through art maybe. Write beautifully. Cherish your friends, stay true to your principles, live passionately and fully and well. Experience new things. Love and be loved if at all possible. When you spend time worrying, you’re simply using your imagination to create things you don’t want. Smile every chance you get.  Not because life has been easy, perfect, or exactly as you had anticipated, but because you choose to be happy and grateful for all the good things you do have and all the problems you know you don’t have. It’s important to make someone happy, and it’s important to start with yourself.

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Sometimes life gives you two options: losing yourself or losing someone else.  Regardless of the situation, don’t lose yourself. If your happiness depends on what somebody else does, you do have a pretty big problem. Whatever someone did to you in the past has no power over the present.  Only you give it power. Know your worth!  When you give yourself to someone who doesn’t respect you, you surrender pieces of your soul that you’ll never get back. sometimes you’ve got to emotionally let go of the things that once meant a lot to you, so you can move beyond the past and the pains they bring you, and open the next chapter in your life. If you want to get over a problem, stop mulling it over and talking about it.   Your mind affects your mouth, and your mouth affects your mind.  It’s nearly impossible to move beyond something when you’re obsessing over it. If it is detrimental to you emotionally, physically and spiritually, what choice do you have but to let go and flourish with self-respect. Saying goodbye is one of the most painful ways to solve a problem.  But sometimes it’s necessary. Moving on doesn’t mean forgetting, it means you choose happiness over hurt. Sometimes you need to be alone to reflect on life.  Take time out to take care of yourself.  You deserve it. Knowing yourself is one thing, but truly believing and living as yourself is another.  With so much social conditioning in our society, we sometimes forget who we are.  Don’t lose yourself out there.It’s not that everything will be easy or exactly as you had expected, but you must just choose to be grateful for all that you have, and happy that you got a chance to live this life, no matter how it turns out.Sometimes you just have to look back at your past and smile about how far you’ve come.

Friendship is the bestiest thing that comes to life . Friends will always be there for you don't worry about the fakes worry about the people who had your back from the start and never treated you wrong always remember they are your real friends don't never take them as granted because one day your going to lose a good friend by the way your action's are when you see a good friend stick to that person, When you have a good friend that really cares for you and tries to stick in there with you, you treat them like nothing. Learn to be a good friend because one day you're gonna look up and say I lost a good friend. Learn how to be respectful to your friends, don't just start arguments with them and don't tell them the reason, always remember your friends will be there quicker than your family. Learn to remember you got great friends, don't forget that and they will always care for you no  matter what. Always remember to smile and look up at what you got in life.

Lailyana Ayu@2013