Surprise each other at times. This may entail bringing home a small gift or flowers, preparing a special meal, dressing up and beautifying oneself (this is not only for women), or sending a secret note in a lunchbox. A little imagination will go a long way here. The idea is to spice up the marriage and avoid getting into a dull routine that may negatively affect the marriage
Make special arrangements to spend time with your spouse away from the kids and the responsibilities of the house. Go away for even a couple of hours and reconnect.
The beautiful moments you see, the great halal love stories you hear about,
may increase your wish about that. nice special life of you with your halal love.. and Never forget,.. that.. "ALLAH hears the crowding whispers of your heart, sees those little tears that are trapped in your eyes and HE is always there for you!"
Love seems the swiftest but it is the slowest of all growths. No one really knows what perfect love is until they get married.
No such thing as "perfect love", this "perfection" only exist in jannah, on earth everybody has faults, the perfection lies in being able to see past those faults and only focusing on the good... May Allah swt bless us all with a marriage that is pleasing to Him first
Marriage isn't about always being happy or "in love". Marriage is about choosing to still love that person and stay on the ride through the ups and downs.
Love a little more than what is necessary, work a little harder than what is required, be a little kinder than what is usual, give a little bit more than what you feel you can afford, stand in prayer a little longer than what you intended and be a little more patient than what you feel you can handle….it is that little extra effort sparked by sincerity in the heart that makes your ordinary self extraordinary.